I know Holly through the hospitality industry. She recently told me she was taking a break from that world and focusing on her writing and her blog. Until then, I had no idea she had an alter ego and co-founder of the brilliant mothersguidetosanity.com. Of course, I had to ask her to contribute to my blog! She was kind enough to oblige. So, Holly, what are you fed up with…
I am fed up with having to do extensive research just to be able to give my kid food or a toy! When did buying things for your kids become a lesson in chemistry? I was shopping for a big boy bed the other day and ran across an article informing me there are dangerous chemicals in the frame and paint. Awesome, just what I need to buy my baby boy. There goes his batman bed.
Sometimes I feel as a society, we are encouraged to live in fear. Which in turn, will make us consume. From day one, you are told bottles are toxic, so you should buy BPA free. Everything has to be organic, because there are chemicals in their food. And don’t worry, that awesome ‘it’ toy you just bought is sure to be recalled in a year, because it is deadly too.
What do we buy for them to eat, play with and sleep on? What can they watch on TV that won’t give them ADD?
I find myself getting more and more annoyed. I can’t only buy wooden toys because my kid loves Batman. He needs Batman in his life to prevent breakdowns. I don’t want to be the A-Hole parent that doesn’t buy him his super hero sh*t.
I will be the first to admit things have changed since I was a youngster, especially in our food. I am the soda police at work (yes that girl, but I have convinced a few to get off the juice)! However everyday something new is on the evening news, warning of us of the ‘deadly’ side effects. Some days, I don’t want to be a lunatic who is over protective of my son. Some days, I just want to go to the grocery store and buy a regular piece of fruit. Some days, I just want to go to the toy store and buy something without reading: Caution: this could kill you and your kid. I am going to have a nervous breakdown trying to keep up with all this! Can’t we just live in ignorance? Wishful thinking.